I started blogging for two reasons:
1) To give fans an idea of what it takes to do what I do, and
2) To be more accountable to myself.
Well, it’s worked, and it hasn’t. While people certainly started getting an idea of what I go through to get anything done – flying a small plane for instance, or spending weeks in New York just to work with my voice teacher and coach, I haven’t been as accountable as I’d like to be with respect to my performing arts career. Sure I’ve been busy with other projects, but being distracted is no excuse for not executing, which is where I think my greatest failings are. But not to worry, knowing where you’re weakness lies is the first step in correcting these problem areas.
I know it sounds like I’ve recently spent a bunch of time in the self-help or business management aisles of my local bookstores, but honestly, I haven’t! OK, I have read those books in the past, and I’ve even bought products to help me stay organized, from software to date books and organizers, and none of it helped. My distractibility coupled with a brain that chugs along at several times light speed is good for something, but I’m not always sure to what end.
For instance, I often make references to people that are obvious to me, but many times people don’t connect the dots. Recently my son was working with a former NCAA Division 1 tennis player who only coaches for fun (he still competes) as his current business profession affords him a great life, and he’s able to travel the world with his family and enjoy an enviable life. Just speaking to him it’s obvious he’s very educated, but somehow during a conversation about playing clay courts versus grass my reference to King Henry the VIII’s summer home tennis courts completely escaped him. Mind you, he had seen these courts recently, and he’s a tennis player. I had seen the courts recently as well while on vacation with my family, and was fascinated from a historical perspective, but I’m no tennis player. However, in an attempt to find some common ground with this obviously well educated businessman/athlete, comparing our trips to London and specifically King Henry’s indoor courts, I had failed to make the connection clear enough for him to understand. My brain doesn’t always take me on a journey of discovery, it just goes, but it’s up to me to steer it.
This previous tangent illustrates what I go through every day trying to hone my craft. Even the fact that I chose a tennis lesson to prove my point goes to show you how far out my thinking is at times. One minute I’m trying to focus on Massenet’s opera Werther, and before you know it, I’m reading about early 19th century handguns (Werther commits suicide with a handgun). Handguns in Europe is a fascinating subject (well to me anyway, because I find anything fascinating for a few minutes at least) and when you add in the political elements of 19th century Germany – which is where Werther takes place – one could get lost for hours without learning any music. Before you know it I’ll be discussing Werther with someone and start talking about handguns, and I sound like I’m off my rocker.
So I’ve had to create schedules and plans, and to simplify my approach and clearly define my goals for working on certain things, lest I get nothing done. I jettisoned the complicated datebooks, software, organizers, and calendars in favor of an all paper system that requires no batteries, with one exception: my family life. For that, we all use Google calendar which sends text messages to all household members days hours and minutes before soccer practices, dental appointments, and/or school plays. Other than that, it’s all paper baby. I guess the electronic thing works best in work groups, and I don’t work in a group when I’m working on my own, which is where the paper system comes in. I won’t go into details of how I do it, but I will tell you that I look at my main notebook throughout everyday, and instead of setting timers and trying to do 10 things in a day, I have weekly goals and simply plow through my lists until I’m done. There’s something very satisfying about crossing things off my lists, yes, multiple lists, that you don’t get when using electronic tools, and I’m not slowed down the least by this method. But how much can an opera singer work on in one day, or one week? Why is taking so long to organize my performing arts career? Here’s the problem:
In addition to singing, I also
Opened a piano rental business in Chico, Ca, and am starting another in San Luis Obispo. I shop for and buy used pianos, arrange for the moving, and service them in the warehouse myself (yes, I’m a piano tuner). Currently we’re building a website which will allow customers to rent pianos by looking at our inventory online, including photos and a video of the actual piano being played. The site will be launched this October, and in addition to buying pianos, we have a marketing plan at has me visiting pianos teachers and music stores, and creating affiliate marketing plans through these folks. I’m also planning on recitals specifically for the local music teachers and their students and families, creating a little cross marketing.
I have developed a social network application that functions like nothing else out there, and am being personally mentored by an internet mogul who started with nothing and created a $250M/yr business in 10 years (he’s worth over $100M and is not yet 40 years old). I just launched an alpha version of the system, which means it’s not open to the public yet, and everyone is shocked that it works. I’m not shocked, but I am extremely pleased. I designed, wrote the specifications for, and found, hired, and directed the developer through this process, all in my spare time, By the way, all the details for this system are in my notebook, although the specs for the system are stored electronically.
I have a fairly complicated financial life, with an anesthesiologist wife who works 65 hours per week and can’t be bothered with anything other than work and family. Our kids are her primary focus when she’s not working, so everything else falls on me. It doesn’t sound like much, but managing retirement accounts, taxes, several businesses, meeting with your bookkeeper weekly, and the CPA 1-2 times per month takes its toll.
I cook a couple times per week, and take my younger son to school everyday. I make his lunch 4x per week, and make sure he practices piano, does his homework, and brushes his teeth. I also am the guy that reads to him every night (currently we’re reading Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Askaban). Unfortunately I had to stop picking him up from school since it cut deeply into my day, which starts at 10am, but I always try to pick him up from practice, or whatever activities he’s doing, to wrap up his day.
I work out 6 days per week in a warehouse with an exercise guru that beats strength, stamina, and results into his clients in what is best described as personalized training. He personally oversees all workouts, since there are no walls, and everyone does one of two workouts each day (there are two levels). Exercise takes time, but being in shape allows me to do more in less time. While a cost benefit analysis has not been done, I feel great!
Now that you know what I’m up to, I believe it will be easier to continue to write these blogs, because if I don’t I start getting emails from people asking me what I’m up to. Stay tuned for more of A Day in the Life of The Flying Tenor. Next time it’ll all be music. There’s a lot happening on that front.]
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